Why do men and women seem to have different levels of commitment to relationships?
I’ve noticed that too many guys seem to have a very lacksadasical and non-committed attitude about their partners and their relationships, whereas it seems that women take their love lives very seriously. The guys have an attitude that “if you don’t do it the way I like it, I’ll find someone that will.” Do you agree? Have other women complained about this as well? Relationships (per se) are not as important to men as they are to women. Men want appreciation, love, sex, a home, respect, security and often a family, but feel those things are not necessary ingredients to success as a man in our society. Men tend to be cautious about commitment because they see it more as a responsibility and loss. After all, marriage means kids, bills, financial responsibility and loss of freedom. Once married or committed, they give up their chances to carouse with half-naked Brazilian beauties in Rio, go into a bar and leave with a gorgeous model, or have the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders over for a hot-tu