What do I have to do to become Bar/ Bat Mitzva?
Nothing – except be Jewish and reach the age of Mitzvot! Becoming a Bar/ Bat Mitzvah isn’t tied to any specific ceremony or action, it’s automatic. Reading the Torah, giving a Drashah, leading services, having a party are all ways of marking and giving significance to this important milestone in your life. It is important that the celebration of your reaching the age of Mitzvot is a meaningful and positive experience for you and your family. It can be a wonderful learning experience, and contribute to your Jewish identity and personal growth. Talk to your parents and rabbi to understand their hopes and expectations, and what is customary in your community. Then decide together with them how you will mark your Bar/Bat Mitzvah.
