What can a family member do to help?
First, protect the family. Don’t verbally or physically abuse the children. Help them understand that compulsive gambling is an illness, one that leads to very unacceptable behaviors. Then make it very difficult for the gambler to have access to money. Take names off joint accounts. Don’t leave money lying around or easily accessible. Don’t pay gambler’s debts, no matter what story (lie) you’re given. Don’t cover up for the gambler; these are all ways to avoid being an enabler. Ask family and friends to help you, not the gambler. Be supportive to the gambler, without enabling them. Outbursts or threats don’t work. Find out about GA and professional help that are available.
