What are the signs of dating violence?
If you have a teen who is dating, be alert for signs of abuse, both physical and emotional. Outward signs include: – Having bruises, scratches and other injuries. – Changing the way she looks or dresses. – Failing grades or dropping out of school activities – Avioding and dropping old friends. – Difficulty making decisions – Sudden changes in mood or personality; becoming depressed or anxious, being secretive – Giving up things she cares about. – Pregnancy- some teenagers believe that having a baby will help make things better; some girls are forced to have sex New friends as well as changes in attitudes, styles, hobbies, and school activities are common in young people. Still, they can be clues that a teen is being controlled by a boyfriend or girlfriend. Warning signs of a Partner Who May Become Violent: – Wants to get serious quickly- will not take NO for an answer – Is jealous and possesive/controlling and bossy – Uses guilt trips: “If you really loved me, you would…” – Blames th