How Do You Respect Yourself During A Breakup?
• Don’t beg. He broke up with you. He’s already made up his mind. No matter how shocked, panicked, and in pain you are, don’t beg him for another chance. It’s very hard to do, but to let this end leaving you with some shred of dignity, try hard not to cry too much – of course, it may be impossible not to cry. But crying a little, then saying, “I’m so sad about this, but if that’s your decision, I have no choice but to accept it,” is much more dignified than screaming, “No, don’t leave me! I’ll do anything you want me to!!” Let him leave and then pitch your hysterical fit. • Gather your supporters. Now is the time you need your friends and family, more than ever. Call them and tell them you’ve broken up with your true love. They will hopefully come flying to your side to comfort and keep you company while you nurse your broken heart back to health. Don’t try to go it alone. • Recognize when it’s no use trying to talk to him any more. He may keep calling you, trying to let you down easy,
