Would using a leash with a young child have any negative effects on the childs personality?
Answer (contributed by Alice Eberhart-Wright): Toddlers who have just learned to walk rightfully want to practice their new walking skills day and night. Parents have to figure out ways to protect them while allowing them many opportunities to move. Leashes are just one way of both allowing some freedom while protecting from danger. Many people are horrified when they see a leash and immediately think of dogs rather than children. I happen to be one who thinks that it should be a parental decision. Adult backs can get tired of bending over and short arms, tired of reaching up. Outside in a crowd, a leash may be the best solution. For me the question always is “How does it feel to parent and toddler?” If the child is happy and gets at least most of the autonomy they crave and the adult is enjoying the time with their child, I don’t think it should be a problem. As toddlers grow big enough to understand safety rules and understand that they must hold an adult’s hand at certain times, the
