Would my roommates boyfriends surprise appearance be unwanted?
The boyfriend has to accept (or learn the hard way) that there is always the danger of plans like his backfiring. This is just the nature of long distance relationships. As for your roommate’s behavior. Well, that’s her business isn’t it? You’ve established that although you’re good roommates, that you’re not particularly close friends, and ditto for the cuckold boyfriend. So I don’t feel like you have a tremendous moral responsibility to get involved in their relationship drama. I like true’s response – go with the plan, and if the roommate brings home a guy the night before pull her aside and say, “Look, you probably are not going to want this guy here in the morning.” Yeah, technically you’re covering somewhat for your roommate who is probably cheating actively on her boyfriend, but the bigger goal here is to avoid any type of knock-down-drag-out drama in your home. Afterwards if you wanna flex the moral high ground muscle you can always confront your roommate about her cheating on
