Why people keep cheating even though they aware that their doing it and hurting someone they love?
Well, I have to say that there are different reasons but sometimes people cheat and are aware because in time they will not care about it anymore or they want to get caught. In some cases, they may want to get caught in order to end the marriage and or relationship.
There are other reasons that people tend to do this as well. I mean there can be some psychological issues that others are not aware of not even the person doing it and at times they feel that they are not hurting anyone because the relationship is on the rocks.
Both partners might not be into certain things so one partner might want to have that type of kinky relationship while the other partner is not into it so they set out to cheat to fill that kinky habit. Things like this can become a habit that continues through the years without no one knowing except the one doing it.
There are several reasons and it depends on the person who is cheating.
Some people will do it simply because they can.They may not view it as wrong.Some may lack empathy and not experience guilt as most would.Others may have low self control and not consider the consequences.
Scientists have also isolated a gene that they predisposes a person to cheat.
Also unfortunately we can over estimate our perceived value in our relationship .A partner can know they are hurting us,but its one thing to know and its another to care.
People value different things so its safest to ask a partner if faithfulness is important to them.
Some people will cheat for the rest of their lives, because that’s what they value and that’s what they choose.It doesn’t make it right,but you can stop yourself being hurt by taking action that protects you .