Why people keep cheating even though they aware that their doing it and hurting someone they love?
Well there are many aspects of this interesting question. People keep cheating and hurting others especially the ones’ they love.
The one whom you love (guy or a girl), the one with whom you spent so many months and years, shared life and cared like a true friend, yet your beloved doesn’t hesitate in cheating you.
Let’s try and understand why this happens.
There could be several reasons that trigger this kind of a situation.
1. Some people tend to develop new habits, interests and fantasies and that leads them to cheat on their partners/friends
2. Some people do it out of curiosity, for trial sake (especially when they are looking for sex partner outside) and later it becomes a habit
3. Some of the folks have always been faking about their true self to their partner (never confessed about what they have been doing in the past) and continue to cheat on their loved ones. For them its business as usual
4. Many feel guilty about what they are doing however always fail not to repeat it again
5. Many are spoilt by their (so called) close friends
I won’t say that someone must be cheating on their loved ones out of ignorance as any mature being would know what s/he is doing.
No why this happens?
Again there can be several reasons.
Some of them could be:
1. Lack of interest due to no mutual conversations happening any more between the partners
2. Frequent arguments and fights over petty issues
3. Not giving enough space to each other
4. One of the partners has become too demanding
5. Not able to hear each other patiently anymore
4. Not doing things that are both the partners are interested in
5. One of the partner is too busy or has gone far for work or business
6. One partner has been taking the other for granted. Something that started out of love has become a habit now
6. Last but not the least, lust overpowering love
If someone is cheating on you, most likely s/he would be falling in one these (broad) categories.
Hope this answers why people tend to cheat their loved ones and cause mental pain knowingly.
Stay positive, always!
Many things can lead to a person cheating but it’s generally because of their desires and their lack of self control. People with more self control will try to find out what’s making their relationship go sore or become uninteresting and find new ways to get that connection back again whether it’s because of a personal issue, an attraction issue, boredom etc.
Most people who cheat are not happy in their current relationship. They are not emotionally ready to be in a monogamous relationship. They may have a lack of feelings for the person they are in a relationship with. If somebody is cheating on you, I think you should leave the relationship because they tend to be toxic relationships.
In my experience, one cheats due to a myriad of reasons, however the most likely reasons are one of two things:
1) They are currently not happy with the state of the relationship, whether it be control issues, financial or sexual issues or probably even a mixed bag of all mentioned and more.
2) They might be habitual cheaters; those we classify as sex addicts. It might be hard to comprehend why these people are the way they are, but it is mainly due to a deep seated injury, most likely related to childhood pain. In this category, one cannot just switch these urges off but seek the help of an experienced professional in this field.
The question you should be asking yourself is, “Is this person worth my time, health(physically and mentally) and most importantly, my life?”
