Why is it that after most females enter a relationship they decide to gain weight?
I really don’t think people, women in particular, decide to “gain weight” weather or not they are in a relationship. Things happen like getting pregnant, age, less exercises, more home cooking…life changes! And as a result your body changes. Are you wrong to want your husband to be proud of you? No. Should he be proud of your body only? NO. You have to be all that you can be and it shouldn’t matter to your husband what size you are! If his feelings for you change just because you aren’t a size 5 any more then maybe he needs to look at what is really important in life. When it all comes down to it…your size, color of skin, race or age should not matter when it comes to love. If you cannot relate emotionally and intellectually and physically then your love won’t last over the long years or through the tough spots.