Why is it so difficult to adjust with in-laws and husband after marriage?
Look, let’s be frank. Your culture is one where women have to compromise for men. Now ofcourse, you get different levels of maturity out there, different families, different personalities, but the fact is: When the bride enters the house of her husband, she is under the jurisdiction of her husband’s family, NOT only her husband. I know Indian people often joke about how it is actually the woman that rules the man, but it is just a joking thing really, when the real decisions have to be made it is rarely done by the women. So then…. understand this much: You will be expected to do EVERYTHING in your power to satisfy the whims of this new family of yours (I take it it’s an arranged marriage), whatever they want, you will have to give, if you don’t (and they are not mature decent people), it will be YOU who gets blamed for “torturing” them (a common description used here on YH) and for being difficult. Ofcourse it is all up to your new husband and the relationship he has with his mother
