Why is Friar Lawrence to blame for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet?
Although their death is not entirely his fault (the lovers and their parents share some of the blame), he arguably bears significant responsibility for it. After all, it was his rather prophetic scheme that precipitates the miscommunication and subsequent tragedy. In fact, in many of Shakespeare’s plays, the friar character functions as an agent of “fate”- arguably an extension of the will of God…or perhaps that of the writer himself, the “god” of the fictional world of the play- and directs the action of the play. (see Much Ado About Nothing, Measure for Measure) Hence, if fate is to blame then Friar Lawrence might be seen as the embodiment of fate. Also, he is Romeo’s confidant and counselor. Although he notes Romeo’s capricious infatuation with first Roseline and then Juliet, the friar has both the opportunity and the responsibility to steer the young lover towards moderation. Although the friar advises Romeo against such haste, he still facilitates the marriage, even presides ove
