Why guys continue to have wrong expectations about honeymoon night?
First of all you should not get involved in your friends/cousins personal and private affairs. You could cause more damage then good. Secondly we assume that your friend is an adult and should be able to take care of herself. She has all the right of saying Yes, no or handle the situation diplomatically. If she feels her husband was doing wrong, then she should have taken the intiative and explain it to him how exactly she wanted her first experience to be. If you are going to shy away and remain a mute spectator who are obiviously giving wrong signal to the opposite person. Don’t worry about your cousin with time she will get over it, Your imagination about how such situation still continues in our generation also highlights a fact that we humans still exists with our original animal instinct .