Why does my cousin play mind games and act so STUCK UP at christmas day?
Maybe she just likes to look good and that’s why she dresses nicely for a nice event. Your wife has no right to tell her how to dress, so what if you are in sweats and she shows up in a ball gown, you are comfortable and that’s all that matters. It’s not like you are slinging pig crap around and she might ruin her Gucci shoes. Leave her alone. She probably gets you cheap gifts because you and your wife sound like horrible people to be around that don’t deserve nice things. If you dislike her that much stay away from her. Honestly you are 50 years old, be a bigger man and grow up a little bit. At least your cousin has the decency to only say nasty things behind your back and spare your feelings instead of making rude comments in front of you and your family just to embarrass you.