Why does my boyfriend abuse me pretty much everytime we have a conversation?
There is no good reason for someone to verbally abuse you like that. I was married to someone who treated me that way and I ended up divorcing him. You can work out the mortgage by selling the house and moving on with your life. Any other bills or joint obligations can also be worked out. I did it and I even had a child from that relationship. You are sitting in a better position than I was just because you are not married to the guy. Believe me, you will only put up with so much and then you will leave him in the end when you have had enough like I did. My ex used to tell me that if I divorced him that no one else would want me. Finally, It got to the point where I didn’t care if anyone wanted me, I just wanted out of the relationship. You have two choices at this point. You can cut your losses and get out now, or you can stay and put up with it. If you choose to stay, then you can’t really complain because that is your choice. Good luck!
