Why does mediation work?
Mediation works because it takes into account the deep-seated need to be heard. Utilizing the resources of communication, mediators enable couples to get behind their positions, threats or demands and communicate their needs and concerns. Divorcing couples might not want to hear it, but they still have a great deal in common: the need to maximize their community resources to be able to provide the best for themselves and any children. Mediators build on this mutual interest by helping couples clarify, negotiate, problem-solve, and make all the necessary decisions that result in a fair divorce settlement. Mediators manage the process so that couples can make informed decisions with minimal conflicts.
