Why does a man need to spank, whip, or beat a woman to maintain sexual arousal?
4/4/01 Q: Several years ago, I went out with a man I knew through my job (but we did not work together). At the time, we were both in our late forties. I had heard a few rumors about this person, but I just couldn’t believe they were true because he is well respected in our community. I found out the rumors are true. He cannot stay sexually aroused unless a woman lets him spank, whip and beat her. I had a very bad experience with this man and I can’t stop thinking about it. Oddly enough, I do like him but not this kind of behavior. How can someone appear to be so normal and then be this other person? Does this kind of behavior happen often? Could he change if he wanted to? Is this a mental illness and how did he get that way? Is this something from his childhood? I know this is a lot of questions to throw at you but I am really ignorant about this kind of thing. Thank you for your time. A: Entire books have been written on this subject so what time I can spend here will be clearly insu
