Why do you assume that all women who hold abortions simply don want to parent, maybe they think its a better option than adoption?
I love my son dearly – we own been in reunion for 5 years – and we are making our own history/memories yet it will never clear up for the lost years. It is a life sentence for both of us and my son has major issues near his adoption made worse by the fact that he knows I wanted to lift up him but he was adopted for no other reason than that’s what his grandparents considered necessary. There are times when I sometimes I wish I’d an abortion even though I can’t imagine not having my son within my life now. Unless you have be there don’t be judgemental as you don’t have a clue of the realities.