Why do some women prefer to have male friends?
Because women are mean to each other, heartless even. Whereas men aren’t constantly pointing out to eachother how Dave’s ass looks big, but rather getting together for brews and good times, women can’t wait to whisper about something or someone and it makes me ill. I prefer to socialize with men and I prefer to work with men. When I ask a guy at the office about purchasing a dry-erase board, it doesn’t take a full-blown 2 week long conference to decide. I get an answer. With women, I always end up having to attend a summit and plead my case. It’s disgusting. As a woman, I don’t want to sit around with other women and spin gossip and rumors and lies and twist things people say. It’s not fun. When I hang with the guys, yeah we might all stand around saying “yup” between sips of brew, but it just feels more natural and I can say whatever’s on my mind and feel confident that it is taken no further than face value (no lies, gossips spun out of it). That is all, drive thru.
I am going to say this: Women tend to want to know the truth about logic. A man can see things a woman cannot see. Also a man can warn a woman of impeding danger so the woman can take appropriate action. Men tend to be more understanding, and offer comfort in times of shedding tears or being broken hearted. You can learn things of an experienced man than you can a male figure who is young and childish almost like mommas boy. The lady gets complimented for stating these important facts: Men aren’t competing with you for attention. Men don’t want to know all those silly details about who you saw and what they said. Men are loyal and don’t gossip. Men make me feel safe and I love that feeling. Men aren’t jealous of your other friendships. Men give really good advice (in my experiences). Men don’t call you all hours of the day with a new crisis each time. Men are punctual. You say you’re going to meet somewhere and he’s on time. Men bring excitement to any conversation because their point
Some women just get on better with men than other women as friends. Everyone is different. Sometimes these women are tom boys but not allways. They can be either lesbian or straight too. Lots of straight women I know prefer to hang around with men, just the same as some men rarely mix with women and other men surround themselves with women all the time when there is normally no sexual connotations involved.
