Why do some people find it hard to say sorry?
It is partly personality and partly upbringing and can be a sign of having no self worth. Somebody with a fear of criticism, who worries about what other people think, might say sorry all the time or they might have difficulty saying sorry at anytime because the feel they will be judged badly or they see it as a sign of weakness. Why is it so important to apologise? Apologising is essential and the only way to resolve issues. It is the best way to show you care and that you are willing to take responsibility for your actions and not blame others. It is particularly important in the case of a crime as victims need to hear an apology. Tips on how to say sorry • It should be face-to-face or at least on the phone. • It is important to apologise and not offend the other person while doing so. You need to acknowledge that the other person is upset. • Wait for them to respond, before you start explaining yourself or defending yourself. You need to give the other person the opportunity to reit
