Why do people think im so bad for leaving my pregnant ex?
Not only did you ‘dump’ her at what would be an incredibly vulnerable time – heartbreak is hard enough without feeling totally abandoned with a man’s child growing inside you, whilst he runs off with another women. What this women needs is support, she has hormones flying all over the place and this emotional upset to deal with also- you don’t seem to give a s.hit even enough to go to a scan to see YOUR child- no wonder she blew up at you – another rejecting blow you dealt her, basically she is doing all the hard work, going through all the aches and pains pregnancy brings and when she goes to bed at night, she doesn’t have anyone to give her a reassuring cuddle or to rub her back when it’s sore, no soon to be father experiencing everything with her, tell her she’s loved, she’s probably really scared about the prospect of being pregnant on her own and being a single mum, and you just want to turn up when your son or daughter arrives here, when they figure how you treated there mother t
