Why do parents engage in parental alienation?
Parents that engage in parental alienation are acting out their own drama and upset about what’s occurred. For most people, parental alienation is mild, and it’s very common in divorces, where an unkind thing is said, a name called or something, where a parent doesn’t have boundaries. Mild parent alienation is, “you tell me if you get scared at your daddy’s and I’ll come,” so planting a seed that you’re not safe with your daddy. Another form of parental alienation is saying, “is anybody over at your mother’s spending the night?” Parental alienation is being inappropriate with those kinds of questions and fishing to find information from the child that the child shouldn’t be involved in. So mild parent alienation often occurs and most people get a grip. Most people understand it’s not appropriate to engage in parental alienation. Eventually somebody will tell them parental alienation is inappropriate, or the child can adapt. They say, “aw, there goes mom again.” ” Aw, there goes dad aga
