Why do most men find obese women unattractive?
What men find attractive in women is basically what makes them good mothers for hypothetical children. Symmetry, healthy skin and hair, having enough spare time/money to make up and dress well: all these say that the woman has high mother potential. Obese women will have more problems bearing children, and problems looking after children once born, than a woman who is not obese. It also hints at self-esteem or other psychological problems. I do not say that these preferences are right, just, or even nice. And remember that our tastes evolved in the time when we were wandering hunter-gatherers. Obesity is uncommon amongst such people, because once you have eaten enough, you usually stop and laze rather than work more to find more food. So, in the days when human tastes were formed, obesity was much less common and much more worrying than it is now.
because they are ignorant assholes who just like most women focus on the physical rather than what is in the heart I actually prefer women with some meat on their bones My late sweetheart was almost 100 lbs over what some idiot that made the chart up calls her ideal weight range but I loved her anyway and would have never dreamed of asking her to lose any of the weight because that would be selfish unless of course her health was in immediate danger and even if that was the case I would not push I would let the decision be hers when you truly love someone you accept them exactly as they are flaws and all
I could have a short shallow answer but it really is more complicated. Everybody has their own image of what is attractive and has the right to it. I personally have not been attracted to obese women for a few reasons. Again, everybody has the “right” to be attracted to whoever they please and men (or women) shouldn’t immediately be considered shallow sexist pigs anymore then it be considered wrong to not be attracted to a person because of height, whether they smoke or drink, what style they dress in, there choices of personal hygeine, or even personality. Now I do find it wrong to harass and discriminate against people who are obese, but choosing not to date someone can not be considered harassment or discrimination. Most of us want to be above the shallowness of what we find physically attractive, but essentially this is what seperates love in the sexual or romantic sense to friendship or the kind of love you have for family. I and anyone else with a brain in their head looks for ot
