Why do maternal grandparents always think a grandchild is “theirs?
As you know Paige, I have dealt with the very same issues. I truly suggest you go to family counseling. First you then add your son and hopefully your daughter-in-law will join too. I am really serious. Your daughter-in-law wants to hurt and punish you and of course the most hurtful thing is to use your grandchild. I am sure she is getting a lot of pleasure out of this. It is even sadder that her parents condone this behavior. Once again, I had the same issue. Questions how she was brought up. I’m sure your son has been thru hell with her. The only way to have peace is to give into her selfish controlling ways. Please think about seeing someone. That is something I never thought I would do, ever. I couldn’t give up on my family nor could my son. If she refuses go with your son. She probably won’t like what she will hear and become defensive. In time hopefully it will sink in. In the mean time do as much as you possibly can for your grandchild, show her love and affection every chance y
