Why do i keep thinking that having a baby would make my life so much better?
I went through that at 16. I was kind of a loner though and I thought having a baby would fill the void I had. I had friends and all but I still felt empty. My best advice is to wait until you at least get out of school. I got pregnant (on purpose) at 19 and would not regret that for the world. I don’t feel empty any longer. But I pride myself in waiting. I’m not gonna judge you and say you’d be wrong to do it before marriage. It’s all in what you believe. But having a baby made my life better AND harder at the same time. Emotionally better but financially harder. I feel its worth it. And if you feel you have no other reason to live then you need to start working on your self esteem sweetie. A baby can keep you strong at times when you want to give up but the baby won’t change how you view yourself. Start with that before getting pregnant.
no that’s not what babies are for, to live for, Babies are about bringing life that you feel confident will bring upon the positive energy to keep life evolving in a positive spiritual place, I suggest you get a pet, see if you can take care of that, Babies aren’t babies for long you have only 16 years of experience to offer, you still have a lot to learn so you can offer all the great stuff you posses, be patient you need to grow a lot more, big hugs
