Why do i feel guilty, im losing everything cause i can have a family?
That’s a tough one. Your brother is being extremely immature. Have you talked to your parents about this? They need to make him understand that this is a happy occasion and his actions are making all of you unhappy. Just because he can’t have kids does not mean you have to feel guilty. If he’s that unhappy then you’re better off not seeing him. Please do not take stress at this point as you can go into labor anytime. Why can’t your brother have kids? Adoption is always as option. EDIT: You should try talking to him one last time. Tell him that his behavior is causing a lot of stress to you and his behavior is impacting not only you but the entire family. If something happens to your baby now, because of the stress he putting you under, it will be HIS fault. If he still doesn’t get it, you need to STOP talking to him till you have the baby. I know it’s difficult, but given how the circumstances are, you’ll have to do it for the baby and you. Your brother needs to talk to a psychiatrist
