Why do i always ruin my relationships through paranoid jealousy?
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): I was the last anonymous poster btw. I think that really says something about her love for you that she would go to counselling with you to support you. I see 2 psychologists for paranoid jealousy and related issues. It almost becomes OCD doesn’t it? Like chocolate cake only leads to more chocolate cake until you make yourself sick, negative thinking, paranoia and jealousy only leads to more of the same until you make yourself sick. Have you found some reasons in yourself for this? Maybe counselling will help you to. Remember you will only get out of it what you put into it, like with anything 😉 People have funny relationships with family. Sometimes it’s love/hate. You choose your friends, she chose YOU, therefore don’t feel that she will treat you the same way as a sister she may be incompatible with. But I can understand that is something you see and don’t like in her per