Why do black women bash black men who date out:?
This has been asked many times. Mostly it is just a few women as most of us don’t really think about things that don’t have a direct effect on our lives. However, this happens more now than when I was growing up and I suspect it has to do with the fact that many women are single and lonely or know other women who are (like sisters, daughters, etc). The fact is that no one can change anyone’s opinion. This goes for the person in the IR relationship and those not in it either. People don’t have to like these relationships. And just because some Black women have been more vocal about it doesn’t mean that OTHER PEOPLE are happy with them either. In any case, it is the couple’s choice who to be with and they have to decide if they are going to allow what other people think to matter. I just want to say again that most Black women don’t spend time thinking about this and I personally tire of BM/WW/AW/LW couples thinking that all of us DO care. Frankly I get as many nasty looks from IR couple
