Why choose an alternative method of resolving family conflict?
Because we live in a litigious era, these non-adversarial concepts may seem counter-intuitive – or even “New Age”. Some methods are relatively new, but for centuries great lawyers have recognized the effectiveness of out-of-court settlements. Abraham Lincoln, one of the great trial lawyers our country has ever known, said that lawyers should; “(d)iscourage litigation. Persuade neighbors to compromise whenever you can. Point out to them how the nominal winner is often the real loser in fees, expenses, and a waste of time. As a peacemaker the lawyer has a superior opportunity of becoming a good (person).” What was true in Lincoln’s time is even truer today, especially when dealing with family problems that were never really suited for courtroom resolution. This site cannot possibly elaborate on all of the advantages to using non-adversarial resolutions of divorce issues. However, here are the most commonly identified benefits: • Protecting children: Alternatives protect children from muc
