Why are so many people against adoption?
I hate adoption. I realize that at times it may be necessarry, like with foster children, but I still hate it for the kids. Adoption comes from loss. No baby wants to be ripped from his mother, his mother is his entire world, he grew inside of her and knows NOTHING other than her. When the child grows, he is surrounded by people who all too often do not look like him, sound like him, have the same interest, ect. He can not possible have a good sense of identity, no matter how functional the adoptive family is. Adopted children (especially those who are adopted as infants, and international adoptee’s) are expected to give up their family so they can have material things, then are expected to be grateful! I hate international adoption. I hate it because the largest reason they are relinquished (there are also kidnappings and rape to help fill the demand) is because they are too poor. They are basically forced into relinquishing one to feed the others. This could be fixed if, instead of a
