Why are more people opting for friends with benefits than loving relationships?
Is easier and funnier to have friends with benefits. This way you are not attached to anybody and you (both) are free and having fun with a good friend. This is better than doing it with an stranger and also you both have fun, which is the important part of the message. If you have a relationship with a friend, it most probably will ruin during the time (soon, or not this soon), but if you have this level of confidense with a friend you can get all the good things about a relationship, avoiding all the bad things about it. I don’t know what everybody else thinks but for me is a good way to have fun, healthier (is nothing wrong) and secure for your relationship (friends and real boyfriend-relationships).