Whose age of consent laws apply when people having sex live in two different states?
It doesn’t matter where you live. The laws of the state only govern what goes on in that state, not what people from that state do when they have left the state. So the only point that matters for you is which state the two of you are in when you actually have sex. Therefore, if you want to be completely legal, you can do it in Texas but not in Virginia.
