Who Says?
Lately, I have been having a number of conversations with people about the places in their lives that feel yucky. It may be in their relationships or their job, but the story is always the same: This is what I have to put up with in order to have: the job, the money, the family, married, or whatever it they are wanting. My response to them is: “Who says?” I want to know who made up this rule! The one that says you “have to” put up with something in your life that feels bad on a regular basis in order to have what you desire. I see so many people struggling with this on a daily basis. They dread going to work, or they are not getting the affection they desire from their relationship. They may feel stuck in something or uninspired by their life. I wonder when it became “OK” to feel like that? Why are some people prone to accepting when things feel like crap, rather than doing something about it? When did you run out of choices? I see many people stuck in this trap. Hell, I was stuck in t
