Who can be a health care proxy?
You can appoint any adult to be your health care proxy, with the exception of your doctor, an employee of your doctor or an employee of your hospital or nursing home, unless related to you. This person need not be a family member and cannot be held liable for the costs of your care just because she/he is your proxy. Make sure that the person you appoint feels comfortable being your proxy, understanding your treatment wishes and the quality of life important to you. Since it is impossible to foresee every type of circumstance or illness, it is essential to consider the general quality of life that is important to you. In doing this, think about your overall attitude toward life, including the activities and situations you enjoy, how you feel about losing your independence and control, and how your religious and moral convictions affect your attitude toward health, illness, dying and death. Discussing the reasons for your treatment decisions with your proxy will relieve guilt and uncerta
