Who are bullies and who gets bullied?
Bullies may exhibit the following behaviors: • May control or manipulate others to get his own way • May be aggressive, nasty, spiteful, and combative • May be impulsive and quick to anger • Might enjoy pushing, name calling, or teasing other children • May be defiant and pushy toward adults, including parents and teachers • May be unfeeling toward others who are victimized • If a boy, he is often larger or stronger than others his age Victims of bullies may exhibit the following behaviors: • May be cautious, quiet, or shy • May be worried or unhappy, with little self-confidence • May be depressed or have thoughts of suicide • May not have a good friend • May relate better to adults than other kids • If a boy, may be weaker or smaller than others his age In addition, there is a small group of young people who both bully others and are the targets of bullying.
