Where does confidence come from?
Confidence comes from within yourself. 1. Make a list of the awesome things about yourself. I know it might be hard because you might feel conceited, but don’t. These things are true. 2. Think about the worst that can happen. “If I ask her out, she might say no”. Now, I know it might hurt your feelings a bit, but it’s really not that big of a deal. She will not ruin your life, she will not tell every woman on the planet not to date you, she will simply say no. 3. Practice walking around at work or somewhere in a confident way. Keep your head up and your shoulders back and think “I am confident, I like myself, etc” 4. Try it with women. Walk up to her thinking “I am confident, I am great, I am smart, I’m good looking, I’m polite, I can and will talk to this woman” and do it. Like I said, the worst that happens is you come out of it without a date, which is where you are right now, right?
