When is it just self defence?and how far can i go?
If you lack control, then you should never fight for any reason. It should never become ‘just too much.’ In a fight, you fight until the other submits or is unconscious, and walk away. If someone pushes you, they have made an act of aggression, and you react instantly, without giving your opponent an instant to think. If someone puts his hands on you, the fight is on. IF they get in your face with obvious ill intent, the fight is on. Do not give them a chance to strike first. It is statistically the person who lands the first blow who is also the victor. Also, when you get hit first, before that adrenaline dump, you take a blow at your confidence, which in many cases means you’ve lost before you even started. It’s best to avoid a situation where someone is going to push you or get in your face. And if it DOES go that far, you’ve obviously not done enough to avoid it. There is no shame in backing down. Regardless of what someone says, it’s perfectly reasonable to say something like, “I’
