When does childhood sexual behavior become a cause for concern?
How do I handle my pre-teen viewing porn on the Internet? My teen is writing erotica. Does this mean that she is sexually active? What do I say to my child who saw my husband and me making love?* Q The other night, my husband and I were making love and our 8-year-old daughter walked in on us. She seemed very confused and embarrassed, and it was a shock for us too! We didn’t give her any explanation at the time and I think she is still curious about what she saw. Is it too late to say something, and what do I say? A At some point in their lives, most couples with children will be walked in on in the heat of the moment. The best thing to do in these situations is to calmly ask the child to step outside the room for a minute, get dressed, and then go talk with him/her. Just remember, how you react can send a stronger message than what you actually say. So, be calm and keep your explanations simple. Most adults, however, are understandably flustered when they are interrupted and many do no
