Whats your opinion on a 21 year old single mother dating a 32 year old?
I was divorced and a single parent by the time I was 21 also … if you find somebody who loves you and your child for who you are … and they really get the whole picture … nothing wrong with it … I found a great guy who accepted me and my daughter and he was younger – so the age thing doesn’t really mean anything … it’s about the person and who they are and what they want … just take things slow and finish up school … good luck … !
A 32 year old is really not too old for a 21 year lass like you. As long as he will be a likely candidate to be good husband and a father to your 17 month old boy, I think there is nothing wrong with it. Men, at that age, have already reached some of kind of maturity and will likely be a good provider if they decide to settle down. I would advise you, however, to scrutinize his character first so you will not have problems in your relationship. If you can find him to be a gentle and loving person, well, I suggest you can take him to be your husband.
Well, as already a mother with a child to fend for, you are fully graduated into the adult world, and you write in a way that suggests you’re no doofus in the brain department. The only think I’d want to impress on you is this……. This is your child, and whatever you do, for better or for worse, you bring that helpless child into it. It sickens and saddens me every single time I run into another one of those stories where a woman with a child gets involved with, and lives with, or marries a man who at some point molests, abuses, even turtures and kills that child, while she turns a blind eye because she “doesn’t want to lose her man”. I’m not trying to suggest for a moment that you would be so foolish or that your guy is that kind of a personality. I can’t, I don’t know either of you. I’m just putting it out there as a reminder to you that YOU have the most enormous responsibility to be the guardian and protector of your child, and you must leave absolutely nothing to chance, to sat
