Whats Wrong With Divorce Revenge?
• Divorce revenge and anger will overflow to other parts of your life. – While the anger starts out directed at your ex, the more you hold onto it, the more it begins to take over your life. You’ll start being grouchy at your children, co-workers and even friends. It’s hard to contain these negative thoughts. They can begin to taint all your emotions. • It’s born out of divorce anger but indifference is the goal – I frequently tell my coaching clients that “The opposite of love is NOT hate, it’s indifference.” You want to reach the point where your ex wife or ex-husband isn’t really even on the radar of your thought life anymore. Sure, you’ll have to deal with them when it comes to the kids, but beyond that you really don’t need to think about them much anymore. • You see the world through “angry eyes”. When we reach a point where we’re angry most of the time, then all we pay attention to are the things that continue to make us mad. We’re less likely to notice the joyful times. The sit
