Whats wrong with a 24 being married to a 50 year old?
I feel really sorry for you because U fell for an ancient ploy of an old man trying to regain his youth thru sleeping with a very young woman. U probably did not realize the draw of an older man who could represent a “daddy” figure. A sad tale oft repeated. Now U R going to enjoy a few years of bliss with babies and new hubby, and then be faced with an old flabby man to take care of later, without the benefit of a nice cushion of extra money. Just the fact that U cheated on his son is enough to put the seal of doom on this marriage U have now. U were looking for a father figure not a true mate. Your husband will enjoy the relationship the most — I guarantee it. U will be sorry later.
I guess if you both are happy then nothing is wrong. However, you did have a relationship with the son so there is bound to lots of tension and awkwardness. What did you expect from his kids? My dad practically did the same thing. I was totally disgusted, plus they ended up divorcing. I think that his kids feel that you giving him a dirty old man persona. No offense. I do think it’s unfair that they’re blaming it all on you though. I would just suggest focusing on you pregnancy and having healthy babies. Ignore everyone else. Concentrate on you kids.