Whats the difference between transsexual and transgender?
We like to believe that gender is between your ears and sex is between your legs. Are there different terms for pre-op and post-op? That’s what we call it. “Pre-op” means before you’ve have surgery. “Post-op” means you’ve had surgery. And then there’s another option called “non-op.” I know some transsexual women who will grow breasts or have breast implants but never do anything to the bottom. Some of them are married to women who identify as heterosexual and want to enjoy the heterosexual benefits of intimacy. So the transsexual partner will say, “Well, I’ll live as a woman but keep the male parts for our marriage,” and the wife will go, “I’ll allow you to live as a woman, but please be at least boy enough to satisfy my heterosexual needs.” I think it’s a beautiful arrangement of people that really love each other. I’ve heard about some people being attached to the identity of being either homosexual or heterosexual, so the surgery causes conflict for their orientation identity? I cal
