Whats the difference between loving and being in love with someone?
A female , anonymous writes: Hi, My partner and I had a discussion on ‘just loving someone’ and ‘being in love’. He doesn’t see a difference. He believes that when two people are in a relationship and they love each other then they are ‘in love together’. This came about coz I asked him if he loved me or was in love with me. I explained to him what I thought being in love was and he then said ‘well with that rationale then I love you but am not in love with you’. Of course, I naturally became upset. Maybe I didn’t describe it right because I believe it’s just something you feel. I said that that person is everything to you and it’s wow and amazing and you are really passionate about them. He then said that he loves me so much and wants me so much. Can see us spending the rest of our lives together and loves being with me and has lots of passion for me. But I am not his everything. He doesn’t need to spend every minute with me. But he loves spending as much time with me. Maybe I didn’t
