Whats the best way to let go of a grudge once and for all?
The best way is not to go around them. It is hard to let go of anger when someone is constantly doing something mean or wrong to you. So do yourself a favor and put distance between them and yourself. Keep reminding yourself that your fiance chose you so obviously he loves you. Let his love be enough for you. You don’t need their love to keep going, you just need him. They may change their minds one day and maybe they won’t, but if you choose to keep yourself away from their negativity it will get easier for you to let it go. My husband’s parents still hate me because I’m not Vietnamese (we have been married for a few months now, but have been together for 7 years). I just don’t go around his parents. He still visits them, but I ask him to go without me and if I’m with him when he stops by, I wait in the car. I don’t hate them and I don’t really care that they hate me. (My dad doesn’t like my fiance either because he is asian, so we don’t go around my dad either) Its not worth the angu
