Whats the best lube for anal — especially to use with toys? Is it safe to use Crisco?
It does seem to offer the most comfort, but I read on some random web page that it’s unsafe. Look forward to your reply. — J Dear J, Nothing wrong with using Crisco. There are quite a few doctors who say it’s okay to use in limited amounts, provided you test a small area and watch for your reaction. But I’m not sure you’d want to rub anything called “shortening” on or around an organ that’s usually revered for its length. Also keep in mind that Crisco is oil-based, which means that it will render any condom totally useless against pregnancy and disease. If the above are concerns (and unless you’re using this stuff for masturbation, they damn well should be), then you’ll want to go with something water or silicone-based. Water is cheaper and less goopy-feeling; silicone is more expensive but you tend to use less and it lasts longer. This is just like any other personal care product. What works for you might not work for someone else. Lube samplers like this one and this one are a great
