Whats a bit of conventional wisdom about sex thats dead wrong?
That what’s good to do in bed is even better when you do it out of bed. Wrong. The whole “roll in the hay” thing is highly overrated and painfully uncomfortable. Tom Turkeys puff up their bodies and spread their tail feathers to attract females, but the real deciding factor in the female’s mind is the length of the male turkey’s snood. With that in mind, is a guy with a lot of swagger inevitably going to disappoint when it comes to sex? It all comes down to performance in the bedroom, not some goofy moves in the farmyard or on the dance floor. It’s not the size of the snood, it’s the song it sings. Casey, 28 My boyfriend refuses to let me be on top during sex. He says it’s just a personal preference, but I feel like it’s a power play. What do you think? I’d have to question the power dynamics there as well. Maybe he’s afraid of feeling emasculated. You need to help him realize that being on top is actually a very pleasurable position. My girlfriend is a really early riser. She wants se
