What Would an Advice Columnist Say Were the Genders Reversed?
Los Angeles, CA–Slate.com’s “Dear Prudence” may well be right about this troubled couple, but I find it hard to believe the same advice would be dispensed were the genders reversed. From Mr. Right Is Never Wrong: My genius boyfriend wins every argument, and I’m sick of it. (10/16/08): Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I are both in our early 20s and have been dating for three years. We have a really strong relationship in almost every way, and I can’t imagine being with anyone else. But here’s the rub: My boyfriend is a genius. In so many ways, I love this about him. He challenges me to think about things, I am constantly learning, and he is always honest and rational. Unfortunately, these last two qualities have caused a bit of strain. I consider myself a very intelligent person also—nowhere near his level, but I’ve always felt confident academically. This sometimes takes a hit when I am around him. I rarely win arguments because I simply can’t keep up with him. In matters of politics o
