What type of questions are asked in a catholic church compatibility test before marriage?
The standard test includes questions about how you look at household chores, budgeting, basic child-rearing stuff (forms of discipline, etc.), socializing with family and friends, conflict resolution, etc. Generally, the guy fills out a form, the girl fills out the same form, and the priest explains where they are compatible, where they are complementary, and where they might be at odds. The reason why this is helpful is because you go into marriage knowing where the strong points are in your relationship (the compatible & complementary ones) and where there might be some weak spots. For example, if in the conflict resolution stuff, you find out that the wife wants and needs immediate resolution and the husband wants time to sort things out on his own, it’s good to know that ahead of time so that they aren’t making each other too crazy when they are in conflict. Your friend should not be so intimidated. It’s usually never as bad as the couple thinks it’s going to be. (And if it’s worse
