What to do, what to do… My best guy friend is going to ask out my best girl friend, but I like him…?
Hi Kaj, what seems so difficult, in respect, is really easy. Your guy friend has the freedom of choice to choose who he wants to, or does not want to, go out with. Feel free to ask him if you so wish, you might get a positive answer, and win him, or a negative, which means you stay single. Even your best friend may not get to win him, as it seems right now whilst you have taken into account your feelings, how do you know how they are going to react to each other, or even if he was just sounding out the ground, to see how you actually felt about him. All’s fair in love and dating. You want him, ask him, somewhere private where you won’t be overseen or heard, to reduce the risk of embarrassment to you both, remembering that no one else will know, unless one of you tell them. Good luck, but remember, he has the final choice in who he wants to date. Mike t.
Most of the time it is better to just go with your first instinct, before it is too late. If this guy does not know how you feel about him, then he is just going to consider it fine to ask out your best friend, without even thinking there might be something going on between you and him. If you do not tell him, he might just be like, “Well, I really like her best friend and I’m going to ask her out…” If you do tell him, he would start thinking, “Well, who do I have the most in common with? And who do I like more?” But honestly, it might start really getting heated between you and your best friend. Is it right to like a guy and interfere with your best friend’s relationship with him? Ask yourself if it’s worth it having your best friend turn against you for telling a guy that she liked you were into him. It might ruin your friendship. Think about it before you do it.
