What the hell is sexual compatibility, anyway? Why is it the foremost concern in a relationship?
Okay. I’m single. I’m looking for The One. I meet a lot of great guys. They like me. We get on okay. We enjoy the relationship, each other’s company and spending time together…until the sex question comes up. I never make it a secret that I am waiting for marriage, even though no one else is, and these men try to convince me, sway me from my position and then the all-time argument, “How do you know if you are sexually compatible if you don’t have sex first, before you marry?” The last time I checked, a man and a woman are physically sexually compatible. What most people are referring to is the emotional sexual compatibility; believe me, if you love someone, the sex will be pleasurable and that is because of the emotional connection, not a physical one; otherwise, how does one explain how one eventually falls for someone they’re either having or have had sex with? Sex causes us to release hormones that heighten feelings of bonding, especially in women. What is the source of sexual compa
